3) Disrespect
- Favouritism
Parents dishonour and disrespect their children when they play favourites among their children, exalting some and ignoring or despising the others. - Not keeping promises
- Relentless pressure to succeed
- Not allowing genuine discussion or appeal
4) Love
- Neglect
- A Lack of physical affection
- Perfectionistic standards or performance-based love
5) Words
- Exaggeration
- Mocking or name-calling
- Lack of encouraging words
Five categories in which parents can easily provoke, exasperate, and discourage their children:
- Mom and Dad
- lack of marital harmony
- divided authority
- child-centred parenting
- hypocrisy and double standards
- allowing manipulation
- Discipline
- inconsistent discipline
- over- or under-discipline
- disciplining in anger
- ending discipline on a negative note
- unjust hidings
- Disrespect
- favouritism
- not keeping promises
- relentless pressure to succeed
- not allowing genuine discussion or appeal
- Love
- neglect due to parental distraction
- lack of affection
- perfectionistic standards
- Words
- exaggeration
- mocking, name-calling
- lack of encouraging words